Distribute copies of this exercise, and take a few minutes for each person, individually, to do the ranking as described below. When the group is finished, use the Talking Stick and have each person share their responses. Then spend some time discussing why each chose what they chose and what struck each one about the exercise.
| _____ trustworthy _____ good listener _____ empathetic _____ wise _____ curious _____ stable _____ strong _____ competitive _____ cooperative _____ persistent _____ flexible _____ focused _____ tolerant _____ firm _____ truthful _____ generous _____ easygoing _____ powerful _____ reliable _____ balanced _____ _____ |
_____ authoritative _____ gentle _____ enthusiastic _____ intelligent _____ healthy _____ honest _____ humble _____ humorous _____ insightful _____ integrated _____ respectful _____ self-confident _____ caring _____ spontaneous _____ compassionate _____ serene _____ purposeful _____ knowledgeable _____ self-reliant _____ intuitive _____ _____ |
_____ peaceful _____ tough _____ stoic _____ patient _____ open _____ mature _____ loving _____ positive _____ polite _____ forgiving _____ happy _____ disciplined _____ introspective _____ accurate _____ outspoken _____ determined _____ creative _____ courageous _____ responsible _____ fair _____ _____ |